Experts said the Chinese general lack of 'love' spouse required the highest in the world

"heard information about 1000 for men, ladies are more than 5,000 copies, amounts to 5 women grab 1 men, the pressure really well. "On Saturday, one in the" mass blind date the General Assembly, "said Ms.

"I help people at people\'s Park \' paired \' was over 2 years, get information on more than more than 3,000, of whom one-third are men and women are two-thirds. "65-year old Tang Yanglin shetan retired to people\'s Park, dedicated to help people describe objects.

to this reality, and demographic data conflicts: according to statistics, more than 37 million at present, China\'s total number of men than women. According to forecasts, by 2020, China at the age of marriage for men than women by 30 million to 40 million, which means, an average of 5 men, 1 wife could not recover.

"most of the attention in the West is the love between two people, the other is not important. But in China, was to be exhaustive. Wants uranium conspiracy, the rational, also want the romantic love at first sight. "Tian fanjiang said," despite the modern acceptance of new ideas, marriage was no longer a previous conservative attitude, but when it comes to marriage, many parents will interfere. "

one dating website in the" bachelor "released the same day <2011>showed that young people choose love objects considered" State of the economy and family background "comes first, 42.6%, and select" character cultivation "only to 25.7%.

"in past surveys, character and personality has always been the major factors considered their marriage choices, this year made us surprised. "This site General Manager Luo Xianlin says.

male strong female weak, matching patterns within men and foreign women still occupy the mainstream of society. Excellent women tend to want to look for a more excellent of men, and an excellent choice but may not be long in the case of men in many of the other half.

"in the eyes of women and men good definitions are not the same as for the other half. "Tian fanjiang analysis says," for many successful men, he may just be a good wife and loving mother-lady as partners. Thrifty, very considerate, this is the fundamental. As for the other half how good, how strong, it\'s not considered in their range. "Asymmetric information

reality seems to be some strange: on the one hand, when people seek edge follows the uranium conspiracy, the conventional wisdom, on the other hand, patience in the marriage compromises traditional practices are declining.

the past, women had no independent sources, marriage is almost the only jobs and men must be done through marriage procreation task, access to family and social recognition. Under this modality, stable marriage must remain. However, such a steady state compromise is often required to complete, and marriage compromises are often not so enjoyable.

"choice of modern society has become more, an unprecedented strengthening independent consciousness of the individual, who between men and women who are unwilling to compromise. "Tian fanjiang said.

"woman, I often advise a number of conditions are relatively good, due to lower some standards may have a good harvest. However, they ignored me. "Tang Yanglin shook.

in this context, a number of "male left shengnv" became a staunch supporter of the single.

sociology territories think, China had appeared had three times singles tide: first times appeared in 1950 first Department <Щ?gt;enacted zhihou, large "a husband more wife" of marriage dissolved, formed huge of female singles population; second times is because "cultural revolution" ended Hou, sharp formed huge of fancheng older youth groups; third times, is is in Shang century 90 generation before and after, idealism in youth men and women in the prevailed, Feelings start to stress in marriage, "loss of affection" as a vague standards can serve as suitable grounds for the divorce, divorce sudden upsurge of the population.

today, a large number of "male left shengnv" which allows a single boom showed signs of.

how to solve this problem? Tian fanjiang thought from the "straight" hands on "the Chinese general lack of \' love \'. Chinese learning for the future of education from small to large business and development, and almost all people think is natural would find a partner. A lot of people through television, novel about love\'s awareness on their career was very successful, but emotionally it is the primary school level. They do not understand other people\'s needs and to their own needs, lacking the power of love. This is simply the lack of love. "Our reporters Lv Jianbo