Gong Haiyan: height would be the factors that influence the quality of life

Gong Haiyan

Gong Haiyan reply:

in fact, I really admire you. Pursue your the man, although is short, but there are good economic conditions, there is good character, good responsible feelings single-minded, generous, motivated bunch of advantages, such as hard, bitter love you a dozen years from junior high school sth Such a good man, get a woman might marry. What's more, you also " for size looks come from academic work General ", or is about to marry out massive psychological pressure of shengnv.

you does not stupid, you has with various reason advised had own accept he, such as " marriage like shoes, own comfortable only most important, is not scenery of performances to others see of "--this saying was quite good Ah, however you also is comprehend, really married has so dwarf of men, relatives will stole laugh, friends will talk, actually, which relatives friends will really care you married handsome guy also is ugly men does ? these concerns only the nightmare of refraction your heart, people who really care about is your own.

, men are the height of most factors can be ignored for a " " ? the answer to this question, is completely personalized. I was seeking a partner, old and my mother said to me, it doesn't matter what the other person's height, and I was almost on the line. I don't care if a man's height, standing appearance because this kind of thing, are the parents of heaven tour is entirely natural, no person and no way to change. Overall conditions when there is no advantage, these individuals through their own hard work to make improvements, have made their career achievements, inherent conditions also can say that he is a pretty strong advantage. And, I think that a person's height is least likely to impact your quality of life factors, affecting the quality of life, is in fact your feelings and your vanity.

object requires two people RESONANCE BETWEEN TWO LOVERS, you said your height and weight looks come from academic work in General, if it met this man, the condition is very good, and big and cool, I am afraid it is very difficult to choose you. You want to know when choosing spouses, the most taboo reached out a hand, grabbed anything, because you yourself are not a perfect person. The world will not be tailored to a perfect lover. Seize the most important one or two points, I think on it. The man in you mind and heart, character good, ambitious, career achievement, and a classmate and friend. Only defect is so short, but the little man in the world also has a layer, and they are getting married. You hesitate to hesitate to go, I reckon that your students will not be waiting for you three years five years, when he feels completely desperate or careless waiting, will resolutely away from you. I'm afraid you'll regret it, even marry someone else, lives an unhappy time in the future, from time to time you will have encountered such a good person in my life, regretting not treasured.

I do not think that your friends and family how will laugh at you married a man short. Whether the world really cares about and care about your happiness will not exceed ten people. And no one marriage choice of pointing you all day long about all this, all your own vanity at work. But I guess since you letter, or to have tempted the boy, just wish I could give you some confidence and courage, to persuade your height and is not so important.

height looked exactly how important the issues that may differ. Director Zhang Yimou pick actress, Gong Li, Zhang Ziyi to Dong Jie, several generations of " girl " looks out of the same mold, same forehead full, eyes clear, rich Oriental charm. It is not fortuitous, people like appearance tends to have a fixed set of specific, it relates to the aesthetic concerns genetic instincts. Similarly, many women like tall men, may be subconsciously hope their children can have such a figure. I also heard that people tend to be with our own genes vary greatly attracted by the smell of the opposite sex, because gene difference between men and women more, better optimization of future generations. So, the subconscious mind and instinct thing, sometimes really is " of reason " could not be persuaded.

however, I suggest you overcome their mental problems, ignoring his height, to marry him. If you can't overcome their mental problems, refreshing and readily invite you to let go. He was a good man, you can't use his love to kidnap him. I hate that the spare tire, and then bujinbuman to the people of their own choosing. Everyone's youth only once, we need not only to himself, also need to be accountable to those who love us.

from: SINA female blog

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