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Tip:Then, he will pay cards, bank cards, shopping cards are taken away from me, calmly told me: "In the future Our family practice AA, each of the tubes, indepent of each other. "see this virtue a man, do not give him children, you have no status. I once again experienced a man\'s fickle ... ...

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Interviewer: Xiaoya

talk by: Mei Yu (a pseudonym) interviews with female

Background: Mei-yu talk like a stubborn vent with Jour, she will own marriage men are not happy all the blame, "of no use to man," she said, the most frequent words and her feelings and views of these, it would be difficult to get the majority of people. As a host, I also believe that Women should learn to appreciate the eyes with love of life, if the blows are resentment, they can not be happy.

love living with her boyfri for three years and failed to enter the marriage

I told Zheng Lin (a pseudonym) is a university student graduation that year, San Huofan eat, the students are feeling the love we were not Laoyanfenfei this thinking is stable after the marriage, so, out of school we lived together, I found silly, Zheng Lin will love me a lifetime. to now, I very much regret the premature premarital cohabitation, the injured is always a woman, when I do not know what marriage means. cohabitation and then OK, and there is no guarantee at any time are faced with unpredictable the variable.

cohabitation began, Lovers, Erbinsimo of love, the temptation to have a very fresh, however, cohabitation and love is not the same, after all, honest to live, and I do not tune temperament Zheng Lin is gradually revealed. I do , strong personality, fiery, failing to admit defeat, and Zheng Lin is very powerful machismo, in his eyes, a man never acts, women have to be dictated to.

Once, we were shopping, met Zheng Lin fris, and I was not familiar with this person, no greeting, which can be violated his face, I like training children, said I, "not educated", also picked up in the hands of the mineral water bottle hit me and I natural quit, streets, and he kicked a pass. incompatible with each other\'s personality, did not caught my attention, that the lovers are the kind I did not expect, that this has become my reason to abandon Zheng Lin.

cohabitation does not to two years, came to make new girlfri Lin Zheng baseless rumor, and I asked him, he actually said, "not any marriage, I have the right to choose." In my view, the distinction between cohabitation and marriage simply did not have lived together for several years, should the outsiders know where to put this face ah? to the so-called dignity, Zheng Lin Fa, I put up and forbearance he felt Fanjian, the relationship between two people good times and bad. cohabitation first three years, I have 26 years of age, parents hurried marriage, I hope the marriage can Zheng Lin heart leash.

my dad and Zheng Lin to discuss the matter of marriage, the king say so outright, but he responded: "wait a few years it." I am anxious, young women can follow you for several years a delay? see me irrational, caught him as evidence of the general, pointing to me, my dad said: "Look at that bitch like, devil marry her. "and take this opportunity to reprove me not, what is it like violent temper, do not do housework, disrespect for parents, in short, I was a" bastard Women ".

This is a human then? love plus cohabitation to six years, I pay all that you did not mind a few Zheng Lin it? excuse to take these reasons, I feel then. Afterward, I want to have a say. Zheng Lin is a cynical face: "It is not love, marriage can be divorced, not to mention that you and not married yet. "" Then I give you to do out of two white baby? "Zheng forest fire," this is your situation I would like, we can not say that I am forced you? "I am furious that she nearly fainted. a man is truly heart-toxic, do not you, just find a reason, put you played far. that day, I broke out frantically to get Cheng Lin\'s face and scratch silk-like potatoes, he also beat up my dad a meal.

contractors who want to, I did not agree with breaking up, on came the news of Zheng Lin to be married, and his new wife, regardless of family background or from outside In conditions far better than me, and I really hard to swallow mouth useless gas, to a row Cheng, and put down hard, then, if Zheng Lin

than I had dared to marry, I die at his wedding on Zheng Lin know my temper, fear kills, and was forced to cancel the wedding, when Zheng hotels, wedding invitations, wedding companies, are ready, because my naughty, lost a lot of money.

after marriage I still can not forget love break up boyfri

more than a year before I get married, then Zheng Lin also held a wedding ceremony, when selected Xu Feng (a pseudonym), is his excellent map, say love, it really does not , I just want to see Zheng Lin, the man I married a thousand times better than his times. have to admit that I love Zheng Lin had a strong fear of a woman\'s mind and body are linked together, heart there is love, joy can be accepted from the body.

Xu Feng I can not achieve "harmony" of the state, even together, had his fantasies into Zheng Lin, otherwise, for me, like "rape" Like, I feel humiliated. Later, I entered the bedroom to cry, I feel particularly aggrieved, as if sleeping in the side of her husband or Zheng Lin, the complex love-hate feelings, tortured I\'d rather die.

I do not like Xu Feng, and he flies almost "sexless marriage." I put the energy into the work in the evening at home, and preted to look busy working overtime every night before going to bed after I am, as is to escape him first marriage two years, I\'m pregnant. Xu Feng, very happy, like a "Angelo", holding a phone to his family one by one the glad tidings of the arrival of a child, I am not surprised, as the complete "tasks" like, be given an account of the marriage .

think, two months pregnant, I get the middle management of the office, this is a windfall, I am ecstatic at this time certainly can not have children, discuss it and Xu Feng, and other jobs to have children after solid Xu Feng, strongly disagreed, despite paying lip service to my frayed, just being interested, he is shaking his head refused, "If the child did not, we divorce." That makes me very quickly, "I\'m not a reproductive tool, you marry me, is for you children? "Xu Feng asked me coldly," If the child is Zheng Lin, how would you choose? "I suddenly speechless, how he can use to stimulate my Zheng Lin He then mercilessly poked my pain.

Yes, not to have children, work is the main reason, but I do not want to have children Xu Feng. it has to pick out, say no good, anyway, I can not let the family affect work I have done abortion, the family is very sad, I blame her mother, her parents said I did not know their parents. Xu Feng hand, very calm, not aggressive behavior, but he started for me, "Violence in" retaliation. I sit Satsuki son, he was to travel on the grounds, put me back to her parents, no longer control me. Then, he will pay cards, bank cards, shopping cards are taken away from me, calmly told me: "In the future we at home implementing AA, all of the tubes, indepent of each other. "see this virtue a man, do not give him children, you have no position, I again tasted the bitterness of a man\'s fickle, but fortunately I financially indepent, or, I do not know much more tragic fate.

children did not, and we were let alone any love, marriage in the "asexual cold violence" in the awkward to maintain the. home, the result has become the temporary resting every day early in the morning, I go to work, Xu Feng, closed the bedroom door; night, came home, his room is still dark silence. into the kitchen, clean and tidy, because it is the AA, I do not buy food to cook, there will be no hot meals ate if the property to pay water charges, but also semi-flat. living under the same roof of the couple, the two eyes are too lazy to even lift a month with five sentences can not say, as if the other is a stranger.

divorced I do not want the siege

32 into the age of marriage, I ed up four years of marriage, with its tortured, it is better than exciting single life decision to divorce due to Xu Feng and discuss the child, and I flatly refused to , bother to tell him: "AA system does not require the child to maintain the family." After receiving a divorce certificate remember the day, Xu Feng, went home to pack something, I said the word with great truth: "If you do not forget to Zheng Lin, You do not have in this life a happy marriage. "That day, he was gone, my tears splashed down stream, and my heart sad to death, there is resentment of Xu Feng, Zheng Lin is more hate.

since the divorce, my feelings are blank. celibate life is simple, remove the work, at home in my house most of the time, feel good, cook dinner, treat yourself; not in the mood, open fast-food packaging bags, is potluck meal. vacation, just play at home and abroad. women did not need to be shackles of marriage, my four years of marriage and single What\'s the difference? still support themselves, nothing more than a man beside it.

can I was in everyone\'s eyes are "not normal" representatives there busybodies that I have not talk Yinji more to say do not fly, do not marry a woman, certainly relying on the back, "tree" it. What are years, and single women economic indepence, they have to have "water"? the most difficult hurdle is the parents, all day forced me blind To meet them, I have had several pro-phase.

once, and a blind date where men meet in a teahouse, did not say a few words, playing with his head down on the phone, but also kept shaking legs. and these people live, unless I die and what is more, a divorced man, inquisitive to review the reasons for my divorce, I abnormal annoyed, glared at him, got up to leave. several failed blind date, made me clung to the old single determination.

single for many years, I have no capacity to love, and also used to clean the day I do not want too much attention to others with suspicion in the eyes, I just choose celibacy just is not what they see as "abnormal woman".

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