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I ten years of marriage her husband, but he did not improve suspicious problems, whether I get together with fris or dinner with colleagues, should advance to him to consult, he does not agree, determined not to go.

sometimes even agree with me to go, He came back I have repeatedly questioned, for example: You guys, what a place to eat, what you eat, who to s you back and so on.

I am really tired, but the answer must be eleven, otherwise he would ton of bricks. I feel tired tired, can not afford to leave off also, no more self-esteem, how to do what?

expert replies:

you want: with fris, or dinner with colleagues when not to her husband "to consult in advance"; "prior instructions", he should not agree; home, he should not be repeated questioning. is it?

sounds like the relationship between the limiting your freedom, her husband\'s behavior led to your dissatisfaction. If this point of view, I understand your feelings, really tired so hard.

Let us look from another angle right? marital relationship: he should not return home home, do not greet you, how would you see? he asked the one thing you are not allowed, still insist on doing, what do you feel? him out to dinner together or come back, you ask him and with whom, where, eat what he hit the roof, do you think?

Sternberg love triangle that is the responsibility, commitment and love. responsibilities mean to you? commitment to you what will it mean?

"limit "controlled, do not trust the ingredients, but also to protect, love the composition, is not it? ten years, you recognize that it is impossible to change her husband. relationship is mutual, how they change? have opportunity to come together, called on her husband to go with what? can avoid the things behind.

If you can not call on her husband, take the initiative to explain to him how? save him chasing three questions four, so they are not comfortable. There is not time to allow choice, right? it was your own decision.

"suspicious" is not something her husband who is your husband together with the "manufacturing", and do not want it, with your co-operation with her husband "destroy" it.

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